Understanding the link between ADHD, shame, and dishonesty, without letting it become an excuse. Understanding the link between ADHD, shame, and dishonesty, without letting it become an excuse. You catch them out. Maybe it's small, "I already sorted that," when they clearly hadn't. Maybe it's bigger. Either way, that particular kind of gut drop happens, the one where you're not just annoyed, you're wondering if you can trust anything they tell you. If your partner has ADHD, y