Discovering your partner has cheated can open the gates to a flood of overwhelming emotions. Infidelity is a betrayal, one that can prove deeply traumatic. It’s normal to experience a range of complicated thoughts and feelings in the aftermath. Confusion, grief, pain, sadness and anger are all normal responses. But what happens when your feelings take a sharp turn in the other direction? What if, juxtaposed with your hurt and distress, lies the desire to reconnect, to be comf