In any relationship, the small moments often carry the most weight. Picture this: you're sitting in the living room with your partner, and they say, “I had a really tough day at work today.” How you respond in this moment can significantly impact the strength and health of your relationship. This is an example of what renowned couples' therapists John and Julie Gottman call a Bid for Connection. What Are Bids for Connection? Bids for Connection are the little ways that we rea
