Infidelity

Counselling

When an affair is first discovered, both partners can feel as if their whole world has fallen apart and salvaging a relationship after the effects of an affair can be very challenging. Many relationships can survive infidelity and ending the relationship doesn't have to be the only outcome after infidelity has been discovered. With relationship counselling, dedication to working on the relationship and a willingness to heal, many couples emerge from infidelity with a stronger and more honest relationship than they had before.

Discovering the affair

Infidelity causes so much devastation in a relationship as it undermines the foundation of relationship itself. You may find yourself questioning;

I never thought my partner would cheat on me. Who are they really?
How could they have done this to me? Our family?
What else have they been dishonest or deceptive about?
Has the affair ended?
How can I ever trust them again?
Can our relationship be fixed and do I even want to give my partner another chance?
How can my partner say they love me and have an affair?
Is there a way we can heal from this?

Working with a non-judgemental, qualified couple’s counsellor and relationship expert, can help you and your partner put the pieces of your relationship back together, gain understanding, rebuild trust, intimacy and create the loving and healthy relationship you’ve always dreamed of. We provide relationship counselling for residents of Sydney, particularly those living in the Hills district, Hawkesbury district and the Blacktown district.

How we can help

Decide if the relationship is worth saving.
Learn the steps needed to recover from the trauma of an affair.
Explore why the affair occurred in the first place.
Identify and work through any underlying marital problems.
Learn how to rebuild and strengthen your relationship.
Rebuild the trust that has been lost.
Gain tools to communicate honestly, effectively and in a way that leaves you both feeling understood and accepted.

What makes us different?

The team at Hills Relationship Centre are all experienced, qualified and registered counsellors who have specific training in relationship and infidelity counselling. We have taken our counselling backgrounds and created a unique blend of counselling that is a little more robust and practical than traditional therapy, to help you achieve your counselling goals faster. We use a mixture of counselling techniques, psychoeducation and practical exercises which are specifically tailored to your situation.

We do not take a one size fits all approach to counselling. Our education and clinical work provides us with a vast amount of knowledge and experience to draw upon. We are person centred and solution focused, and believe in evidence based approaches and interventions.

At Hills Relationship Centre, we embrace diversity and love in all its forms, and welcome all cultures & gender, sexual and relationship diversities (GSRD). We love working with clients in all kinds of relationships, weather same sex, opposite sex, open relationship, swingers, polygamous or members of the kink and fetish community. Please know that you are wholeheartedly welcome at Hills Relationship Centre.

What you can expect

Through our infidelity counselling services you can have:

Healing and a way to move forward.
Ways to learn how to forgive your partner.
The tools to create open, safe and honest communication, so you feel truly heard, understood and validated by your partner.
A blueprint on what is needed by both partners to recover from the affair.
A restored sense of closeness and intimacy that comes from a safe, trusting, and committed relationship.
To learn tools to address conflict and have it resolved in a way that brings you closer together.
A renewed sexual vitality with your partner.
A trusting, meaningful and safe relationship with your partner.